Limit theorems for monochromatic stars

Let $T(K_{1, r}, G_n)$ be the number of monochromatic copies of the $r$-star $K_{1, r}$ in a uniformly random coloring of the vertices of the graph $G_n$. In this paper we provide a complete characterization of the limiting distribution of $T(K_{1, r}, G_n)$, in the regime where $\mathbb E(T(K_{1, r}, G_n))$ is bounded, for any growing sequence of graphs $G_n$. The asymptotic distribution is a sum of mutually independent components, each term of which is a polynomial of a single Poisson random variable of degree at most $r$. Conversely, any limiting distribution of $T(K_{1, r}, G_n)$ has a representation of this form. Examples and connections to the birthday problem are discussed.